The 7 Reasons Prospects Hesitate to Meet With You

Sep 27, 2023 / By Bill Cates, CSP, CPAE
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By understanding these primary reasons why prospects don’t want to meet with an advisor—and two ways to help them move forward—you can gain trust and get the ball rolling with new relationships.

Let’s start with a physics lesson. OK?

To paraphrase Newton’s First Law of Motion:

A body in motion tends to remain in motion. A body at rest tends to remain at rest.

Unless what?

Unless acted upon by an outside force.

This law of motion is often referred to as the law of inertia. One of the biggest challenges you face in your efforts to acquire more ideal clients is inertia.

Some prospects are stuck doing nothing. They appear to have their heads in the sand. Other prospects are taking action and don’t feel compelled to stop and take a look from time to time to make certain they are on the right road headed in the right direction.

7 sources of prospect inertia

There are probably more, but I’ve identified at least seven core reasons prospects resist taking your call or meeting with you. As you may see below, several of these reasons probably comprise an intertwined ball of reluctance in the mind of many prospects.

  1. Fear and guilt. Fear of what, you ask? Fear they haven’t been saving enough and it’s too late to do anything about it. Or maybe fear of taking any sort of risk with their money. Or maybe fear they did the wrong thing and can’t recover (this happened to a close friend of mine.) Another place where fear/guilt can rear its ugly head is if the prospect is already working with an advisor and doesn’t know how to fire them. (You can help them with that.)
  2. Embarrassment. Some prospects feel embarrassed they haven’t made more progress. They are smart and even successful by many measures but judging themselves harshly for their lack of financial progress.
  3. Ignorance. They may be totally ignorant and unaware of what it takes to create financial security. Or they may be falling for some of the generic financial advice found on T.V., radio, podcasts and social media. They are taking action that they believe to be right for them, though they could be headed for disaster—at worst—or at least missing opportunities.
  4. Confusion. A confused mind will rarely take action. From a neuroscience standpoint, the brain won’t typically explore opportunities until the person it resides in feels safe. Confusion does not feel safe.
  5. Laziness. I admit that what might appear as laziness to us may actually be one or more of these other reasons causing inaction. On the other hand, some people may just be lethargic or apathetic about certain things. (A shame, if it is their financial future.)
  6. Arrogance. I’m sure you’ve met a few of these folks over the years. Yes? My former dentist was like this. He truly thought he was smarter than any advisor, planner, wealth manager, money manager or insurance professional. (Luckily, he was a darned good dentist.)
  7. No one to trust (yet). Some people don’t move forward with professional advice because they haven’t yet met or are reluctant to trust anyone with something as important as their money. I put “yet” in the header because they haven’t met you yet through a referral or introduction. Referrals work on borrowed trust. We borrow the trust that prospect has with their introducer long enough to earn our own trust. While the numbers vary, I have never seen a study that didn’t demonstrate that, by far, the most successful client acquisition method is for prospects to meet an advisor through an introduction from someone they already trust.

You are the ‘outside force’

Please know that I use the word “force” metaphorically. There should be nothing forceful about how you help rescue someone from their inertia. Here are two concepts for you to consider employing in that effort. I hope you find them helpful:

Show financial leadership

This is a mindset that creates actions. I believe that the reason you can become well paid in this profession is because you exercise the courage to question prospect and client assumptions.

My definition of financial leadership is: Guiding people to make important financial decisions that are in their best interest that they wouldn’t make without you.

In addition to courage, taking a financial leadership role in someone’s life also requires knowledge. You must continue to stay on the leading edge of tools and concepts that can help your clients reach their goals.

Reveal the cost of staying the course

Probably the simplest way to break the hold of inertia (though that is not always easy) is to help someone see the cost of staying the course—often that means the cost of delay or doing nothing.

Yes, making a change or moving forward with a plan or specific product usually has a financial cost. This is particularly true with insurance products. If you can, show your prospect the potential cost to themselves, their family, and/or their business if they do not take action. When the cost of staying the course or doing nothing is painful enough, most prospects will bust through their inertia and take action. Finally!

Action step?

As the result of reading this, what are you going to do to help your prospects and clients understand and then break through their inertia? I’d love to hear your comments.

Bill Cates, president of Referral Coach International, works with financial professionals who want to build their practices by fully mastering the referral process and tapping into the lifetime value of their clients.

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